Dear Abby: I Caught My Wife Sexting Another Man


I have a few friends who date younger guys, and their relationships seem to be so healthy. One of the reasons is that those guys WORSHIP those girls like they’re queens. I was nervous to meet his family, but they were so wonderful and accepting. They said they didn’t care about the age difference at all! My family on the other hand, still arnt completely okay with it. But I think they will come around eventually.

Dear Abby: I’m caught in the middle of a family dispute

We sneak around all the time which is hot and all but I care for him a lot more then just the physical aspect of our complicated relationship. We talked recently and he is starting college. He says i should find a nice guy and that we are at different points in our lives that the age difference would never work out. I told him i have no problem waiting for him since i have a full time job myself, ill keep myself busy, but he says he doesn’t want to do that too me. But this is what always happens he pushes me away then a few months later we will be back at it again, i don’t know what to do. Well ladies after beign married and divorced.

The scary part now is he’s feeling lost, feeling like he doesn’t knw who he is anymore. He says its nothing that im doing he just doesn’t know where he’s going. Did you ever deal with this with your guy. I try not to nag but I have asked question just to get a abetter understanding of where he’s at, where were at. He shows affection, love, we laugh and play but then he shifts back into his mood.

Wait until he’s 18 and see if you still feel the same. I oso have a guy who wants to marry me is 24 & am 25.goosh am so scared for a commitment even tho we both have a child each. We love what we can bring to each other whether its normal or not, there is just so much in this relationship that we are gaining from that we find ourselves in awe of it. Right now in this moment of time we are riding the wave of love although we can both rant and rave and scream and shout we still end up giggling and understanding each more. The love we have created for ourselves has made him change his views and ways and he is just benefiting so much from this realtionship that I am never gonna give up on us.

Hmm no doubt behind the scenes it caused a stirr, however his closest family accepted me on the day but who’s to say what was said. I recently started seeing/talking to a guy that is 7 years younger than me . Its been so much fun, all we do is laugh and cut up; to me he is just perfection. The only thing that I find wrong with him is the fact that he cant be straight forward. I love this man so much, and vice versa, that when I told him I wanted to write a book about our affair he was all for it. I’m writing what I call a trovel — it’s a novel with more truth than fiction.

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I have never revealed my age to him . I have told him several times that I am not interested in marriage or live- in relationships. I have no idea why he is so hung up on me but I have decided to just enjoy it while it lasts.

It’s already been denied by the Justice Department. Gee, Gaetz is hardly another Roy Moore after all. Maybe he won’t even have to move a few miles across the state line to continue his political career. However, the conduct investigated and the girl’s age are both from 4 years ago.

It never occurred to me that there were far worse things than being fat . Accepting — let alone celebrating — that my body is just naturally bigger than some other people’s didn’t feel like an option at that time. Now take those rules and multiply them by somewhere between 10 and 1,000, and you’ve got the rules that many fat women face while navigating dating. She claims “she doesn’t remember everything,” which I find hard to believe.

I would say a guy who doesn’t have these things would cause more pain than anything because these things really are pretty basic and essential for a healthy, mature guy. Once again you’ve provided a super great cheat sheet and organized / spelled out something vital for us perfectly. Don’t pass up the opportunity to be friends with both men and women. You never know who your friends know. If you meet a cool guy at a party then ask him for his number and say lets get a drink sometime. Maybe in a couple months he’ll invite you to a party he is throwing where you can meet someone new.

I would have happily waited years to find ‘The One’. But if I wanted to have children, then I knew I had to get a move on. I missed having someone special in my life — someone to look forward to seeing at the end of a long day, someone to cuddle up to. Sugar Daddy is a well-known scam on Cash App. You should not respond to messages from ANYONE promising to send you a one-off or regular payment.

When the subject of exes comes up she feels like its a one sided conversation because she doesnt have those kind of stories to tell. It is quite possible that she is responding to your texts out of politeness, as you say she is a good woman. She probably also realizes that you are hurting and she doesn’t want to completely abandon you. In the future, it’s a definite possibility which is why you might want to remain in contact with her from time to time. I am very close friends with an ex-boyfriend of mine who broke up with ME because he thought I was too old for him. I was the one who didn’t care about the age difference, but it bothered him to be seen in public with me.

A man who’s already been married and raised kids has no carpool schedules to contend with, which can mean he’s got more time to plan amazing dates. Ive been out a couple of times in the last month, but I’m socially awkward due to being on the spectrum. Also, I tend to attract much younger women that are old enough to be my daughter which isn’t something I’m comfortable with. There is nothing wrong with dating a younger man. I’ve always loved dating older women. Please be careful, I have been there and it’s NOT fun.

We are I think just friends with Benni. We use birth control for sure every time we had sex. Plus I am 47 so my chances I thought were low of getting knocked up.